If you read til the I’m a Dad and a engineer nothing scares me shirt Furthermore, I will do this end, thanks for reading my experience of being raised by a spoiled brat of a woman that also happens to be my mom. Not having kids meant not having an additional layer of stress in our lives as we struggled to make ends meet and get along with each other in the early years of our marriage. There was no escape from each other; no hiding behind the kids and this was a good thing. But, -and here I’m going to be brutally honest-, I’m supremely happy that I did not pass along all the anger and resentment that I grew up with. I was emotionally not ready to be a father. Any time I’ve taken over the years for self healing would have gone into raising kids and they would have felt my irrational wrath and carried it with them to pass along to the next generation. I no longer carry that burden so when I interact with young people I can be helpful, not detrimental to their well being. Leo Rudolf Raubal was conscripted into the Luftwaffe and was captured around the time of the Battle of Stalingrad by the Red Army. General Friedrich Paulus, German Commander at Stalingrad, had asked Hitler to send a plane to evacuate Raubal but he had refused and so Raubal was captured when the city fell, as was Paulus. Hitler had considered exchanging Joseph Stalin’s son, Yakov Iosifovich Jugashvili, who had been captured by the Germans, for his nephew, but Stalin refused with the infamous quote of “war is war.” Yakov ended up dieing in a concentration camp. Raubal survived the war. While almost every teenager makes an effort to fit in, Palo Alto doesn’t really have popular kids. Maybe it’s that high schools in general aren’t at all like what they’re reflected to be like on tv, or maybe it can be credited to Palo Alto’s uniqueness, but the high schools in the area don’t really have many cliques. They do however, worry about not being smart enough being a nerd is cool here! While below I did make the case that many of us are spoiled, I feel as if it’s a different type of spoiled then what’s usually meant. Sure, we live in an area where people make a lot of money, but every single one of those people worked hard for their money. We are surrounded by people who put in the time, effort, and dedication to get to where they are – they weren’t handed any money, they earned it.
I’m a Dad and a engineer nothing scares me shirt, hoodie, tank top, sweater and long sleeve t-shirt
Living in Palo Alto may have influenced us to like nice things, but it’s also influenced us to pursue our dreams. I’m almost positive that every one of my friends would choose to work (even if they didn’t need to), because we’re ambitious people. We have huge career goals for ourselves and we will stop nowhere short of accomplishing them. Not every teenager gets their own iPhone and laptop, but at the I’m a Dad and a engineer nothing scares me shirt Furthermore, I will do this same time, the average teenager comes nowhere near to exhibiting the level of hard work and dedication that a Palo Alto teen does. Most people surrounding you are very smart and educated. Kids that grow up here have very high educational standards. They strive to be the very best, and while many times that leads to unbearable stress, it also leads to incredibly innovative and intelligent teenagers. This is especially true for people interested in STEM based jobs. Plenty teens have internships at UCSF and Stanford. There are also plenty of other programs in the area; Stanford has a few summer programs and internship availabilities for teens interested in scientific research and medicine. Silicon Valley is also very active and many kids participate in club sports. They’re so caught up in getting As that they have no clue what makes them happy. Most of the students here don’t even have real friends; if you look at some of these high schools during lunch time, 70% of the students will be sitting on the grass in small circular groups, eyes glued to their phones, small talk occurring every few minutes. Most of these students don’t have many (if any) real friends, because how can you be friends with someone you’re competing against? How can you be a true friend to someone, when every time they get a better grade than you, your jealousy overcomes how much you care for them. How can you be a true friend to someone, when every time you have to submit an assignment, or have a test, you pray they do poorly, because their failures mean all the more chance of you getting into your dream college. How can you be a true friend to someone, when you can’t even tell them your top college choices because you don’t want them to apply and take your spot. When a community like Silicon Valley expects so much of its teenagers, how can you possibly expect them to be themselves?